There something that doen't change during a dinner for girl only, almost every converstaion has the same topic: MAN...last times I was eating out with some of my newlywed friends, they're officially married from few months but they lived together from several years...
There was one of the group that was talking about what she find nasty into her men... "I would like if he would be more/less"...so I've listened and listened for a couple of hours, then I innocently asked hey but you loved him for those things too...you lived together for 5 years, you know him very well and you married him knowing how he really is...
This is my personal point of view: you met a person and you like him, then you start dating and then you decide to live together, at the beginning there are been a lot of discussions about EVERYTHING, then you understood how his mind works and he showed the real himself and you lived for him till he popped the BIG question "Would you marry me?" and you said YES, now after a couple of months you say how you would like that your husband would me...well you said Yes knowing him!!!
I can understand my friend that had a long distance relation till the wedding and they're still into adjustment phase, but when you live togethere BEFORE wedding you cannot say " Oh I didn't imagined that he was so or so", but you live together or not?
If you open magazines in this time of the year apart a lot of articles and suggestions for gifts, festivity 's menus, plus there are a lot about couples life and I found some interesting tips to share with you...(and I shared also with other girls during that dinner)
How understand if he is MR right or not? there are some signals that say clearly that he could be your other half....
- Sense of humor, most men tend to show sense of humor only at the beginning of relation, but if a men has sense of humor about himself also after several months/year is a very good thing:P
- Listen: if a men is really interested listen and memorize everything about you (yes also the fact your little accident on frst day of elementary school), while if he isn't you can repeat same thing thousand times and his reply will be the same, if a man doen't listen isn't interesting-ugly but true-
- Accet you as you are: this means that you didn't mask your ersonality he will must to fall in love for real you and viceversa, you will love each other for nice and also for nasty things. True love doen't want change the other but true love accepts you as you are.
- Is able to talk/discuss with you: most couple broke at the first discussion, who wants to stay with you forever will be able to talk clearly, and honestly, yep also about topic taboos like money &co.
- Has a good group (family/friends): if he is close with family and some friends is good, maybe isn't so good when he put friends before you, but hei anyone is perfect right?
- Admit mistakes: this is the hard part for everyone admit and say "ok I'm wrong", but if he is one that admit it, keep close because it means that want to talk with you, find a deal and continue your relation
Most of friends were agree, some were completely disagree....If you're agree or not feel free to leave a comment, I always said that Charming Prnce is the perfect men I seriously prefer Schrek, perfectly in all of his imperfections:P